Dress Rehearsal

Last Sunday, Jackie talked about me and how I do/act at book signings, which made me think. Do we actually know how much we’re learning when we’re learning it? Do we realize how much of what we see and do while learning the craft of writing is a dress rehearsal for the real thing? I sure didn’t.

I’ve been writing for a long time and just now publishing. I’ve taken online courses, and attended multiple conferences and workshops over the years. To be honest, I like to sit in the back of the room and observe others. i.e. I don’t like to be the center of attention. At least I didn’t used to be.

At my very first book signing, I stood in front of a room full of people and gave a short talk. They were all family and friends and the people I didn’t know when I got there, I knew before they left. In other words, I’ve lost my ‘back of the bus’ mentality. For signings, anyway. This wasn’t a conscious decision—it simply happened. If I want to see my book in the hands of others, I’ve got to put it, and myself, out there.

But that isn’t the only thing that’s changed. The comments I’ve received from others (friends, family and total strangers), have convinced me that I actually have learned quite a few things about the craft of writing. I hadn’t realized (at the time) how those monthly critiques, or comments from contest entries, have helped me grow as a writer. The information I gleaned from conference workshops, or rejections from editors and agents, have helped me see what I was doing right and wrong has been immeasurable.

I don’t think it matters where you are in the craft, you can always learn more. I sure know I need to keep learning! If you’re new to the craft, my best advice is to become a sponge. Soak up as much info as you possibly can. Pay attention when more experienced writers give you advice.




Because eventually you’ll find you’re no longer in the middle of a dress rehearsal, but the main performance and you’ll be center stage. Start learning those lines! 😉


5 thoughts on “Dress Rehearsal

  1. Excellent advice, Linda! I always figured you’d take to this upfront spotlight stuff. After all, you’ve never met a stranger. 🙂

    • If you’d told me a year ago, I’d actually feel comfortable in front of a group, even my family, I would’ve said you were nuts. Guess I was wrong, huh? LOL

      But you’re right about me not meeting any strangers. Sold a few books that way, simply by passing out my bookmarks. THANKS PEGGY MOSS FIELDING FOR THE WONDERFUL EXAMPLE!

    • You’re right, Jackie. All we have to do is be open, watch and listen. Then when it comes time to put those things into practice, we already know how. 🙂

  2. I think you’ve always been out there. You just needed to give yourself permission. Just think what life would have been like if we’d had permission from the time we were kiddies.
    It boggles the mind.

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